Here is what's missing in dating relationships, as well as so many relationships... Today's S.O.L. Story leads to what I call, "The Art of The Ask." The ability to ask in order to uncover and discover something. It starts within YOURSELF, so you can also do it with...

If you live on planet earth long enough, there will be things you must overcome, and they’re IN your present. This is what you can do about it… Oftentimes we blame the past for everything, including our present. Stop blaming your past. IT can't do anything about it....

This is for those moments when you’re at the end of the road, the edge of the cliff — the beginning of something… So, now what? Today I'll show you... The “unexpected” allows us to go so much deeper than what we thought we would, should, or could…to discover what’s...

With everyone competing for your attention, where do you fit in? Where does your higher purpose fit? Who's fighting for IT? Today I show you how... First, you must stop repressing yourself. Repression leads to depression and regression! Second, you must discover your...

Punching yourself or punching others, how's it working for you? It's time to find your rhythm again... Some of the greatest lessons I've learned have come from being in front of a speed bag...attempting to slow down my mind and TRUST. OR... In a ring, throwing...

What’s the difference between counseling and coaching? This was the question I was asked. This is my answer... STOP TRYING TO FIX YOURSELF…YOU’RE NOT BROKEN. What’s the difference between counseling and coaching? Yes, this is a question I often get asked. This is my...

The truth is, you can wait around for it to rain money, or you can become the rainmaker in your life… Are you ready to feel like a winner, and help others do the same? When was the last time you allowed yourself to give YOU...freely? The way we define things is...

If you’ve ever felt a little selfish for putting you first, then listen to this… We care for that which we value. So the first thing you must do is take a look at YOUR VALUE, and how much YOU VALUE YOURSELF. How much do you value YOU and your life? Are you willing to...

 There’s NO Best Version Of You! In order for you to live the life you love and love the life you live, you must make changes in your life. You have power to change the circumstances or situations in your life. But it doesn't come from "out there." Change and...

It's time to play...not pause...not stop...PLAY. "Hey, do you have time to play?" This is what the little boy asked his neighbor. It made my heart smile. In today's episode, I show you that you're never too old to play. In fact, I believe it's vital to play at every...

All day I’ve been feeling like I wasn’t quite sure what I wanted to share with you today. I kept thinking, what does “she” (you) need to hear from me today. Then I sat down at my computer, and I got the email…I knew what I was going to share with you. I hope my SACRED...

It’s time to redefine beauty for yourself. What does BEAUTY mean to YOU…to US? There’s nothing more beautiful than a confident soul. And this comes from TRUTH. The TRUTH is…not only are you more than enough…You ARE. You are beautiful. Alive. Whole. Well. If you don’t...

We’ve all been there. You know, that overwhelming feeling of feeling overwhelmed. If that’s you today, please take a deep breath. Pull over, and take a moment. I’m going to remind you of a few things that I experienced lately in a highly stressful, overwhelming...

Today I'm going to teach you 3 things that must happen to take your NEW belief to a NEW level of an UNBELIEVABLE LIFE. YES, you’re only one belief away… The beginning of BELIEF is BE. How are you being as you’re believing what you’re believing? And as you’re believing...

Today I’m going to uncover some truths that I believe will set you free, if you believe them. The truth is what we believe. But what if you’re believing something that’s not true? Here are some truths about TRUTH: #1: What do you believe? Look at your own personal...

This is the SECRET to living a life that works. Are you ready? This topic of “life’s work” has been one that I’ve wrestled with at some level throughout my life. Even though I felt as though I knew what my “calling” was from the time I was very young. The journey of...

If this was YOUR last day of life, would your life know that you LOVED IT WELL? Today's episode is a continuation of yesterday's episode.  (EPISODE 1914: How To Become The Great Lover Of Your Life.) Having just received the news that someone special has unexpectedly...

In today's episode I reveal the 5 Engagements of becoming a great lover. If your experience of life isn't the love story you thought it would be, this message will help you create one that is. Your Happily Ever After awaits... Are you a great lover of your life? My...

In today's episode, Dr. Shannon will show you how to get to the next level of your abundance. Today’s episode is about getting above the problem and plan. So you can go to the next level. If you desire abundant growth and creation, then you’re going to have to get to...

In today's episode, Dr. Shannon teaches you the secret to finishing what you start. WARNING: This one's going to require some deeper thinking. Is it possible that the reason you haven't finished what you started is because you haven't finished your START? Today I'm...

Today I’m going to give you some powerful steps that’ll help you reconnect with the inspiration that’s in you. If you’re lacking that inspired, loving feeling…you'll find it IN you. It’s simply fallen asleep. It’s time to wake up! Disengagement will cause us to lose...

If you’ve ever suffered from the diagnosis of procrastination, you’re not alone! There is a cure. In today’s episode I teach you a 4-Step Strategy for overcoming…treating…adjusting the Procrastination Affliction. Today’s S.O.L. STORY… I’ve been in a resistance,...

In today's episode, I’ll teach you how to become the great lover of your life. What’s the cost of NOT dating yourself well? A whole lot of unnecessary pain, suffering, and sometimes years of your life. The emotional, physical, spiritual, and financial consequences can...

It’s the topic of SEXUAL HARASSMENT. We can fight against it, or fight for something so much BIGGER than it. There are no show notes for today’s episode. You’re going to have to listen to this one yourself. Thank YOU for being YOU and STANDING UP FOR TRUTH! (And NOT...

In today's episode, I give you permission to be you, and to stop doing what's NOT you. If it's not you...then what is YOU? Where are you NOT being YOU in your life? Today’s SACRED S.O.L. STORY comes from my sweet little rescue dog, Stela. Recently she did something...

This is for those days when your attitude is bad and you simply don’t give a darn… Yep, we all have them. In fact, I’ve been feeling like this all day! This is what I’ve done…and hopefully this helps you. Be extra kind, compassionate, and loving with yourself today....

Cheating doesn't just happen TO you. It happens THROUGH you. It's an epidemic in our world, but it doesn't have to be. Here's how you can be part of the SOLUTION... Whether you've been cheated on, are thinking about cheating, or you've never thought about it until...

Today’s episode is about affairs, cheating, heartache, divorce, and what WRANGLER JEANS have to do with your healing… Yes, the struggle is REAL! And this S.O.L. Story will expose some precious diamonds in the midst of the FIRE. Diamond #1: Your pain can lead to...

Have you been swallowing cement lately? This is a question I’ve asked countless numbers of patients over the years. Yes, I’ve palpated backs that felt as though they had been replaced with a chunk of cement. “Issues in your tissues” is what I like to call it. We’ve...

Perhaps you're sipping on WHINE...whining on your "poor me" story or you're sipping on wine, trying to numb your pain. Today I show you what to do about it... I know you're hurting at some level. Where Are You Hurting? In this episode, you're going to learn 4 steps to...

You're either motivated by emergency or inspired by urgency. Which one are you? Urgency is a great inspirer. Find out how to make it work for you today... In this episode I share my personal S.O.L. Story on the process of making a decision, and the importance of...

Fierce and Fear may start off sounding the same…until you feel her roar. The question is, have you lost your roar? Do you feel as though you’ve lost your fierce? Your strength? Your force? Your power? Do you feel like you’ve lost your way? No worries…because today I...

Please don't die, or wait for someone else to die, before you make this ONE VITAL DECISION... Don't wait until you have an annoying alarm — or worse yet, a devastating wake up call — to begin pouring out what's inside you. Don't take your gift(s) to the grave with...

When you SHUT UP for too long…you eventually SHUT DOWN. Today I’ll show you how to SPEAK UP… There's a time to shut up, and there's a time to speak... When it comes to using your tongue, it requires a lot of wisdom. Wisdom that’s only gained from USING the tongue....

For those moments when you feel INSECURE — like throwing in the towel, and giving in…DON'T DO IT! This is why… Insecurity will keep you from making the valuable deposits that you desire in your life. To be secure and NOT INSECURE, it’s vital to keep your security AND...

Would you like to experience a full, great, prosperous, abundant life —outside of need? This is how… A need-based belief will keep you needy. What does “need” mean to you? And what does it mean to be “need based?” What do YOU need? If you only give yourself what you...

How do I love myself? This is a question I get asked A LOT… Today you’re going to learn how to begin the process of LOVING YOU. Consciously. Compassionately. Consistently. Are you ready to get an A+ in LOVE? LOVE. Loving yourself. It seems like it would be so natural,...

STOP TRYING TO FIX YOURSELF. YOU’RE NOT BROKEN. Here's how... What’s the difference between counseling and coaching? This was the question I was asked. This is my answer... Counseling focuses on FIXING. Coaching focuses on FINDING. Counseling focuses on the PAST....

So, you’ve discovered your Love Language…now what? In order to become the great lover of your life, you must become fluent at speaking the language of love. This takes practice. Daily practice. But the good news is, the language of love is quite practical. Why?...

Did you know there are 5 primary ways you speak the language of love? Today you'll discover yours... When you discover your Love Language, you’ll know how to speak to yourself (and others) well. Gary Chapman, best-selling author of The 5 Love Languages, reveals the...

Stop looking for love in all the wrong places. Stop waiting for someone else to make you feel sexy, smart, alive, beautiful, and passionate. Love is made. Created. Recreated. Love is made. Not found. Start making it. Listen to your life. Open your eyes. Visit your...

Once you see the value of your time, you’ll stop giving it to those less than worthy thoughts in your head… Today I show you a valuable way of looking at your time so you stop unnecessarily burning it. What's your TIME worth? Your hour? Your minute? YOUR LIFE? Besides...

Stop wasting your life…YES, IT’S A RANT YOU DON’T WANT TO MISS... I’m DONE watching you wasting your time! Time isn’t money, it’s your life! When the writing’s on the wall, and it’s time to go…DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME. Stop waiting for someone to come along and save you,...

A Private Investigator, cheating husbands, and several valuable lessons learned… Is it possible to trust again after your trust is betrayed? The answer is yes…and these 3 keys will help... A question I’m often asked is, “If I’ve been betrayed, how can I ever trust...

Today's episode is a little rant/sermon about the TRUTH about truth. Although truth may not be popular, knowledge of it WILL set you free. First, are you believing something that ISN’T true? We all have a S.O.L. STORY (although it may not be so sacred), of someone...

This ONE QUESTION has the power to UNLOCK your life, and give you infinite FREEDOM… What would you do if there was NO ONE to make responsible for you and your situation, but YOU? AND…YOU BELIEVED YOU HAD THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. What would YOU do?...

Today we’re going to break TRUST down, and put it back together…stronger than ever. Show up for yourself. What does that mean to you? Do you trust yourself? When you think of trust, what words come to mind? Truth. Safe. Trust…as in money. Like a trust fund. Security....

We often say that it's the thought that counts, but is it really? If you desire to make your life count, then THIS is what COUNTS... Will YOU Show UP for YOU? Intention is only the beginning. It’s NOT the thought that counts, if there is NO action. If there is no...

Today I help you identify what may be costing and causing you unnecessary frustration, and you’re not even aware of it… COST? CAUSE? Today I help you identify what may be costing and causing you unnecessary frustration, and you’re not even aware of it… This is what...

This podcast episode was inspired by the question…“What’s in your closet?” It got me thinking about my own personal story regarding closets, healing, and the real reason why I podcast from my closet. Listen and find out what’s in my closet, as well as yours. Please...

Today I'll show you how the "F" makes all the difference between your SH*# and SHIFT...and the 4 F-Words that'll help you redefine it all. When the “S” is HIT(ting) the fan, you can SHIFT or you can be piled up in a whole lot of crap. Perhaps it’s time for you to...

DISCLAIMER/I APOLOGIZE: After recording today's episode, I noticed a clicking sound coming through my microphone . I'm not sure why this happened, but I WILL get it figured out! For today, please forgive the distraction of the occasional clicks. (THANK YOU!) Perhaps...

If you’re struggling with being, and staying consistent, then the only way to BECOME IT is to BE IT. These steps will help you… Today I show you a way to identify and clarify your consistencies, so you can become consistent at being YOU, and create the desires of your...

Today's episode is a great reminder of living life on purpose, versus by accident...it's time to get YOUR life WORKING. The most unexpected moments can be our greatest teachers, so can this ONE question. Today’s episode is a valuable — short and sweet — reminder of...

Today I'll help you begin the process of uncovering and discovering YOUR BELIEFS so you can decide which ones FIT in your life, and which one's do not... I'll show you how to take control of your thoughts so you can receive what you say you desire. Today’s episode is...

Today I reveal the 4 Forms of Opinion Ownership and a new form of Entrepreneurialism... Do you think about what others are thinking about you? You're about to learn some TRUTHS that'll set you FREE...while adding incredible value to your life, and the lives of others....

Our "ideas" can work for us or against us. It's not necessarily what you're eating, but perhaps what's eating you that matters most... Have you ever fallen in love with an idea or the idea of someone, only to be disappointed? In today’s S.O.L. Story I show you what...

Try this when you feel like giving up and quitting... Today I share a S.O.L. Story that'll give you new perspective on what to do when you feel overwhelmed, scared, and want to give up. Is it surrender or giving up? Surrender or defeat? Surrender or quitting? They may...

Your dreams aren't dead. They're still there. They simply need some C.P.R. and tender, loving care. Here's what you can do... Today I give you a 3-Step Evaluation process to assess, revive, restore, resuscitate, and resurrect your dreams. If you’ve ever felt like your...

You're not IN your way, you ARE the way! Learn how to stop battling yourself, and begin working WITH yourself today... Today I teach you 3 things you can do to begin winning with — and within — yourself. If you’re battling with yourself, you’ll always end up on the...

Today I uncover the real problems behind your commitments, or lack thereof. First of all, it's not a commitment issue. It’s a decision issue. You have more choices and options than you think you do. The problem is, you think you don’t. But… You do. The other problem...

If you’re like most humans, you may have bought into the deception of perfection. Today I’ll help you identify where you are, and how to get out of the prison of perfection. Have you ever found yourself saying, “Hey, I’m not perfect. I’m only human?” OR… You’ve...

Today I ask a series of questions to help you uncover and discover a new way of looking at what you THINK you KNOW. It starts with, "What are you learning now?" The first of many questions that we must ask ourselves. No matter what you know today, there’s still more...

Today I show you a proven, effective SECRET for increasing your focus and experiencing a "Vacation Day" as often as you desire. Vacation... It's not a destination, but a decision. One that's based on a lifestyle that YOU choose. What makes a "vacation" a vacation? 1....

Today I share my recent discovery while trying to see clearly through both eyes. There’s a reason we have two eyes, and I’ll tell you why… The question is... Are you fully utilizing your double vision? Or have you gotten confused? Please grab your SACRED S.O.L....

Today’s episode will help you get out from behind the toilet bowl (or the crap) in your life. If you’ve ever had an accident or made a mistake, this is how to turn your mess into a message. My dear, sweet, little rescue Yorkie, Stela, inspired this S.O.L. Story. After...

Today I share a S.O.L. Story that'll take you beyond a survival mentality, and into one of a SURVIVOR. It reminds all of us how powerful the gift of life truly is, and how to live like we're SURVIVING. Your life matters and what you do today matters. How do we THRIVE...

In today's episode, I discuss the best way to position yourself to release anything that's keeping you heavy, and weighing you down. It'll also position you to change and create with ease. We carry so much “excess”, heaviness, and stuff in our lives. I’ll never forget...

THIS QUESTION CHANGED MY LIFE. In today’s episode, I share my personal journey of going ALL IN, and making a huge career transition that’s allowed me more focus, freedom, possibilities, and powerful RESULTS as I’m living my dreams every single day… IMAGINE. I couldn’t...

Today I share what works when it comes to creating change... This episode is a continuation of yesterday’s EPISODE 1860: Why I Don’t Set Goals. It’s a more detailed explanation of the 3 Secrets of why I don’t set goals, and what works when it comes to creating change....

Today’s episode will inspire you to create something NEW in your life. Are you tired of setting goals, but NOT reaching them? If you’ve ever felt “beat up” by traditional goal-setting, today’s the day to set yourself free and get results WITHOUT setting goals. Life’s...

Today I share a personal story about a recent podcast rating that I received. What do you do when good doesn’t feel good? How do we redefine great? It's about redefining GOOD and great. Good is part of great. So how do you go from good to great? Human nature has this...

In today’s episode I share a new perspective on what to do when you fall down, and where to do it. We've all had times in our lives when we've fallen flat on our face, dropped something, or been dropped. What do you do in that situation? What does it take to get back...

Today’s episode is perfect for those moments when you simply don’t FEEL like it, and don’t exactly know what to do with your feelings. It’s somewhat of a continuation of yesterday’s episode. So have you channeled your inner ROCK Star yet, my dear? You’ve heard me say,...

Today I’m going to teach you how to access your inner ROCK Star, and infinite power. Do you know that you have an inner ROCK Star? The question is, are you channeling it? Today’s SACRED S.O.L. STORY #1 is about my rock skipping skills and what makes a great rock....

When I say, “confidence”, what comes to mind for you? Really? Do you feel confident, and how do you define confidence? Today I’m going to help you answer these questions for yourself, and get to know what true confidence really is by redefining your confidence. ...

Today I show you how to stop going back and move into the future you desire. It starts with what you believe. We all have belief systems that serve us, our desires, and the common good OR they DO NOT. In order to begin the process of identifying and changing what you...

Today I'll show you how to go beyond your wants to a life of fulfillment. Often our wants are symptoms of a greater cause. The cause being unfulfilled desires. You must go beyond your WANT to get to your deep desires. When your desires are fulfilled, your life will be...

Imagine what your life would look like if making excuses wasn't an option. In today's episode I show you a new way of looking at truth, and regaining your power. Imagine what your life would look like if making excuses wasn't an option. In today's episode I show you a...

Today's S.O.L. STORY comes from my most recent experience of pain. Whether your pain is physical, mental, spiritual, and/or emotional, this message will help you. The number one lesson is this: Pain is not your problem. Seriously, pain is not the problem. The CAUSE of...

Feeling lonely in your relationship? Wishing he (or she) would make you a priority? I understand, I felt this way for years…it was awful! Here’s what I’ve learned about the key to PRIORITY, especially in relationships. If you’re doing this, I have a question for you…...

Illusion is a false idea or belief. What if you have false unconscious beliefs? Don’t worry, today I’ll share a technique that will help restore EASE back into your life. ILLusion starts with ILL for a reason. Today’s S.O.L. STORY is inspired by the conversation we’ve...

I’ve redefined fear, and here’s what I’m calling her… Here are 4 things I’ve discovered about fear: 1. It requires a new way to breathe. I’ve stopped holding my breath. Instead, I inspire. 2. It requires a new way to be. To be here. I tell myself, “I’m here.” 3. It...

I’ve rediscovered fear, and here’s what I see…The Metamorphosis. Today’s S.O.L. STORY is a continuation of the conversation we’ve been having about going all out…all in…discovering…fear…scared…sacred… I call it “The Metamorphosis…” It’s a natural process, although it...

When you’re still hiding, and you don’t even know it….DO THIS! Today’s S.O.L. STORY is inspired by my own personal journey of adventure and healing. It’s led me to a new AHA…revelation…insight…decision…commitment. Instead of "trying to help you..." I’m simply going to...

Best-Selling Author, Elizabeth Gilbert — Eat Pray Love and City Of Girls — taught me this powerful technique for handling fear. Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To Engage yourself.) TODAY’S SACRED S.O.L. STEP: Where have you been feeling...

Disagreements, we all have them. And they're necessary to our growth if we're willing to SEE them THIS way... Today's S.O.L. STORY was inspired by a few intense conversations I've had recently. Is it a disagreement or resistance to growth? Are we here to know it all,...

Regardless of the storm in your life, these 4 words can change everything from the inside... Sometimes the biggest clouds are the ones we carry with us. And sometimes the only wave necessary is the decision to wave goodbye, while waving hello. We don't control a lot...

Today I share some true confessions, and hopefully help you in your journey from scared to sacred. Growth is uncomfortable. There’s no way around it, but through it. Today’s S.O.L. STORY was inspired by a couple things… 1. A decade old picture. 2. An almost lifetime...

How do you know if you’re loving yourself or not? Here’s one way to know…and grow! So, we’ve been talking about judgment, and how it’s killing your love…life, right? Today I’m going to show you how to grow what you know, and GROW. Grow your love. Grow your life....

This Is Killing Your Love…Life! How do you define judgment? THIS is the meaning of judgment… And the REDEFINED meaning that we’re going to give the J.U.D.G.E.… Justify. Undervalue and underestimate. Discriminate. Give and get. Evaluate. And remember, your opinion is...

Today I’m going to share one of my biggest breakthroughs that has affected every area of my life… S.L.E.E.P. I take my sleep very seriously. I mean, VERY. And after this episode, I believe you will too. When it comes to sleep there are 2 requirements: 1. You do it. 2....

Today’s S.O.L. STORY was inspired by my walk in Central Park. Perhaps you’ve been here too. I wonder... I LOVE LOVE LOVE walking in Central Park. There were people everywhere today. The grass was filled with people sunbathing, sharing a picnic, relaxing and hanging...

In order to be a love story, there must be love. Here’s how to find it and begin telling a new story… Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I found my voice and wrote this little book.” Writing your love story begins with you finding your voice. It starts...

There’s a taste to freedom, a certain deliciousness that can sipped on and savored daily. Here’s how… Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I began to taste freedom.” Yes, and I began to... STAND. IN. POWER. Your significance, strength, and solutions are...

Connecting your heart and soul will make you whole. It starts with your heart, and the rest will follow… If you stay in your head, you’re dead. If you follow your heart, you’re fed. Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I realized my mind can torment and...

Perhaps you're experiencing ADD because you’re lacking your ATT…the ATTention to your call which is to first and foremost LOVE LOVE, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE OTHERS, LOVE YOUR LIFE. Here's how... Have you ever thought about fear in this way? It’s usually not WHAT we fear,...

Fear’s not fear unless you fear it. So today I’m going to teach you a powerful strategy for dealing with fear… Have you ever thought about fear in this way? It’s usually not WHAT we fear, but WHY we fear what we fear. Imagine getting to that understanding, and no...

Have you ever thought that "self love" is selfish, self-centered, or arrogant? Well, I have great news for you...you're not alone. Today I show you why you're NOT alone, and why self love isn't only about you. Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I began...

If you’re trying to be enough, it’ll never be enough. You’ll never be enough. What you’re really seeking isn’t a quantity, but a quality. This is what qualifies you… Kim McMillen discovered, “When I loved myself enough I forgave myself for all the times I thought I...