In today's episode, I give you permission to be you, and to stop doing what's NOT you. If it's not you...then what is YOU? Where are you NOT being YOU in your life? Today’s SACRED S.O.L. STORY comes from my sweet little rescue dog, Stela. Recently she did something...

This is for those days when your attitude is bad and you simply don’t give a darn… Yep, we all have them. In fact, I’ve been feeling like this all day! This is what I’ve done…and hopefully this helps you. Be extra kind, compassionate, and loving with yourself today....

You are NOT alone, but I bet you feel alone, don’t you? If not always, sometimes. Here’s how to NOT feel alone. Kim McMillen said it so well, “When I loved myself enough I realized I am never alone.” First, you must realize it. Realizing it start with REAL for a...

Not all “Self Care" is the same or healthful. Kim McMillen reminds us that “When I loved myself enough I started treating myself to a massage at least once a week.” Although massages are great for caring for yourself, so are manicures and pedicures, eating and...

If it can’t be interpreted at least 2 different ways, it’s probably not true. This is how to do it… Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I recognized my courage and fear, my naiveté and wisdom, and I make a place for each at my table.” We'll start with a few...

This is an episode that you're going to want to return to again and again. Especially when your heart and life are in need of healing. (Warning! This may be contagious...) Do you need to become the great laugher of your life? Today’s been a tough day. I was asked to...

The first step in being alone is realizing that you are NOT alone. Period. These are the next 3 steps... However, if you never get alone, you’ll always feel alone. Kim McMillen shared, “When I loved myself enough I began to feed my hunger for solitude and revel in the...

Don't make these 3 dangerous mistakes with your heart... However, even if you're going the wrong direction, at least you’re going... Kim McMillen said, "When I loved myself enough I saw beyond right and wrong and became neutral. At first I thought this was...

Do you have a hard time saying NO? Great!!Today’s S.O.L. Training will help you say YES even more… Kim McMillen discovered, “When I loved myself enough I learned to say no when I want to and yes when I want to.” The key here is “when I want to.” Define when? Define...

The next time you feel scared, instead of resisting it, do this instead... Kim McMillen reminds us, “When I loved myself enough, I learned to stop what I am doing, if even for a moment, and comfort the part of me who is scared.” Comfort yourself in those moments when...

Have you ever had that unsettling feeling that keeps persisting, and you’re not quite sure where it’s coming from or what to do about it? I have too, and today I show you where it’s from and how to deal with it. Deal with it? Heal with it? We heal it by dealing with...

For you to create the love and life you truly desire, you must become single-minded in your focus. Period. The end. The beginning. This is how to start NOW… Kim McMillen discovered, “When I loved myself enough I began to see my purpose and gently wean myself from...

We all have a history (HERstory.) How are you writing yours in your present? Today I show you how to begin sharing a new story. The only way to tell a new story is to get a new perspective. Yes, you can think of it like this...the number one weapon you have in writing...

In a world where everyone's trying to be seen, are you seeing YOU? If you’re not willing to see yourself and for yourself, you can’t truly be yourself. But don’t worry, I’ll give you a powerful mirror today… Imagine living in a place with no face... What do I mean by...

Start putting things where they belong. Here’s how… Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I started picking up litter on the street.” Everything has a place. And I believe everyone has a place. What he or she does determines the FIT. Where do you fit? You fit...

Gary Vee talks about the importance of EMPATHY. Today I talk about what it is, what it’s not, and how YOU can empower it. No matter who you are and what you do, being empathetic is vital.  And guess what? Those who love themselves well have the greatest capacity for...

After going and growing through years of grief, I’ve discovered this about it… Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I could remember, during times of confusion, struggle, or grief, that these too are part of me and deserve my love.” It's time to heal...

Holding “unforgiveness” in your heart is one of the most devastating things you can do to yourself. Today I show you how to make forgiveness become irrelevant… Kim McMillen discovered, “When I loved myself enough forgiving others became irrelevant.” This is my...

What’s your call? You may be thinking, I don’t know. So today I’m going to help you get the answer you’ve been looking for… Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I quit answering the telephone when I don’t want to talk.” In order to answer your call you...

If you believe a lie, then you’re living one. I know that sounds harsh, but it’s true. Imagine if you could live in the freedom and clarity of TRUTH. Today I give you 3 KEYS to tap into your truth and become hyper focused… Kim McMillan learned, “When I loved myself...

If you’ve been seeking greater joy, happiness, and movement in your life then this is going to speak directly to your heart and soul. Marie Kondo (Bestselling Author of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up) recommends we make choices about our belongings based on...

Fear will stop you in your tracks, but what if you could make friends with fear? Here’s 3 things you can do today… Kim McMillen discovered, “When I loved myself enough I began to see that my ego is part of my soul. With this shift in perception it lost its stridency...

Let’s find out. And If you are, today I’ll show you how to STOP comprising in all areas of your life. It’s time to uncover and discover… 1. How you may be compromising. 2. How to STOP compromising. Kim McMillen said it well, “When I loved myself enough I began to...

Exposing yourself, naked and unafraid, allows you to patiently be the clearest version of you. Here’s how to get ultra clear… The clearest version of you is the truest version of you. Dear Kim McMillen said, “The impulsive part of me learned to wait for the right...

Would you be willing to enter into the momentum called the moment of your life — with a sense of relief, awe, safety, and security? This is how… This IS the way to relief… Kim McMillen discovered, “When I loved myself enough I began feeling such relief.” (This is...

When you're ready to MOVE, you can get to the next level. Here's how... Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I began walking and taking the stairs every change I get, and choosing the scenic route.” YOU must take YOU to the next level. STEP UP. In order to...

When you begin seeing it as abuse, you’ll stop doing it… FORCE. Stop trying to force yourself, or anyone else, into doing something you, he, or she are not ready to do. Kim McMillan reminds us, “When I loved myself enough I began seeing the abuse in trying to force...

Today I’m going to show you 4 things that you can do to increase your ability to respond versus react… Kim McMillan said it best, “When I loved myself enough I stopped blaming myself for choices I had made — which made me feel safe and I took responsibility for them.”...

Discover the secret to overcoming overwhelm, and loving your life and life’s work well. Today’s episode was inspired by one of our listeners who says this: “I love love love Dr. Shannon! I listen to her podcasts on the way to work almost everyday. I have been inspired...

In today’s episode I share a new perspective on what to do when you fall down, and where to do it. We've all had times in our lives when we've fallen flat on our face, dropped something, or been dropped. What do you do in that situation? What does it take to get back...

Today’s episode is perfect for those moments when you simply don’t FEEL like it, and don’t exactly know what to do with your feelings. It’s somewhat of a continuation of yesterday’s episode. So have you channeled your inner ROCK Star yet, my dear? You’ve heard me say,...

Today I’m going to teach you how to access your inner ROCK Star, and infinite power. Do you know that you have an inner ROCK Star? The question is, are you channeling it? Today’s SACRED S.O.L. STORY #1 is about my rock skipping skills and what makes a great rock....

When I say, “confidence”, what comes to mind for you? Really? Do you feel confident, and how do you define confidence? Today I’m going to help you answer these questions for yourself, and get to know what true confidence really is by redefining your confidence....

Today I show you how to stop going back and move into the future you desire. It starts with what you believe. We all have belief systems that serve us, our desires, and the common good OR they DO NOT. In order to begin the process of identifying and changing what you...

You must go beyond your WANT to get to your deep desires. When your desires are fulfilled, your life will be fulfilling. What are your surface wants? Where are they coming from? There are 4 Steps that’ll help you go down, deep into the foundation of what you desire....

Imagine what your life would look like if making excuses wasn't an option. In today's episode I show you a new way of looking at truth, and regaining your power. Truth sets us free, and living a life without excuses is living in TRUTH and FREEDOM. What do you do when...

The number one lesson is this: Pain is not your problem. Seriously, pain is not the problem. The CAUSE of the pain IS the problem. Look for it. Discover it. Are you so busy that you’re forgetting to take care of yourself? Yes, I understand. It happened to me too,...

Today I reveal the hidden truth about the change(s) you desire. If you want change in your life, this message is for you. In order for you to live the life you love and love the life you live, you must make changes in your life. You have power to change the...

   "Hey, do you have time to play?" This is what the little boy asked his neighbor. It made my heart smile. In today's episode, I show you that you're never too old to play. In fact, I believe it's vital to play at every age. How engaged are you with FUN in your...

If you’re experiencing grief, or know someone who is, today’s episode will help you tremendously. I share a very personal story, and two major lessons I've learned in grief. All day I’ve been feeling like I wasn’t quite sure what I wanted to share with you today. I...

In today's episode I share a very personal story of self-love and acceptance. AND 3 Secrets that'll help you love your body. This is not about the job you did, or didn’t, get because of your boobs. This is about small-breasted women AND large-breasted (as well as...

Feeling lonely in your relationship? Wishing he (or she) would make you a priority? I understand, I felt this way for years…it was awful! Here’s what I’ve learned about the key to PRIORITY, especially in relationships. If you’re doing this, I have a question for you…...

Illusion is a false idea or belief. What if you have false unconscious beliefs? Don’t worry, today I’ll share a technique that will help restore EASE back into your life. ILLusion starts with ILL for a reason. Today’s S.O.L. STORY is inspired by the conversation we’ve...

I’ve redefined fear, and here’s what I’m calling her… Here are 4 things I’ve discovered about fear: 1. It requires a new way to breathe. I’ve stopped holding my breath. Instead, I inspire. 2. It requires a new way to be. To be here. I tell myself, “I’m here.” 3. It...

I’ve rediscovered fear, and here’s what I see…The Metamorphosis. Today’s S.O.L. STORY is a continuation of the conversation we’ve been having about going all out…all in…discovering…fear…scared…sacred… I call it “The Metamorphosis…” It’s a natural process, although it...

When you’re still hiding, and you don’t even know it….DO THIS! Today’s S.O.L. STORY is inspired by my own personal journey of adventure and healing. It’s led me to a new AHA…revelation…insight…decision…commitment. Instead of "trying to help you..." I’m simply going to...

What would it look like for you to experience a life that’s working well…WELLTH, wellness, a life and life’s work that you love? Today you're going to find out how to begin the process of living an organic, WELLTHY life. What is it? What would you and your life look...

Have you ever thought that perhaps anger and arrogance are here to teach us something? Here's the lesson... As with any emotion or feeling, there are lessons in the madness... Kim McMillen reminds us, “When I loved myself enough I came to see how my anger teaches...

  When it comes to learning, we have education and experience. Without experience, there is no learning. The only way to fully learn is to live and listen. Here’s how… Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I stopped seeking “experts” and started living my...

Your uniqueness is what makes you valuable. Being able know and understand YOU is key to loving you, your life + life's work well. Today I help you translate the inner voice of your soul. Kim McMillen learned, “When I loved myself enough I began pouring my feelings...

If you desire to be brave, courageous, and fearless, this ONE thing will help you BE, even when you’re feeling super scared. Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I lost my fear of speaking the truth for I have come to see how good it is.” The #1 way to win...

If you're tired, fatigued, stressed, feeling burned out, or like you're drowning in your life, DO THIS... Kim McMillen reminds us, “When I loved myself enough I quit trying to be a savior for others.” Perhaps the one in need of saving is YOU... Here's what you must...

Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I began buying a hostess fruit pie for the teenager in me who loves them so. Once in a while. Cherry.” What power did your inner teenager hold in her heart and hands? She held… 1. Imagination. 2. Innovation. 3. Rebellion....

Your pain is in direct proportion to your pleasure. Did you know this? The next time you hurt, ask yourself these 3 questions and unlock healing you never knew you needed. Kim McMillen said, “When I loved myself enough I let the part of me that missed Kent feel sad...

Cheating doesn't just happen TO you. It happens THROUGH you. It's an epidemic in our world, but it doesn't have to be. Here's how you can be part of the SOLUTION... Whether you've been cheated on, are thinking about cheating, or you've never thought about it until...

Today’s episode is about affairs, cheating, heartache, divorce, and what WRANGLER JEANS have to do with your healing… Yes, the struggle is REAL! And this S.O.L. Story will expose some precious diamonds in the midst of the FIRE. Diamond #1: Your pain can lead to...

Have you been swallowing cement lately? This is a question I’ve asked countless numbers of patients over the years. Yes, I’ve palpated backs that felt as though they had been replaced with a chunk of cement. “Issues in your tissues” is what I like to call it. We’ve...

Perhaps you're sipping on WHINE...whining on your "poor me" story or you're sipping on wine, trying to numb your pain. Today I show you what to do about it... I know you're hurting at some level. Where Are You Hurting? In this episode, you're going to learn 4 steps to...

You're either motivated by emergency or inspired by urgency. Which one are you? Urgency is a great inspirer. Find out how to make it work for you today... In this episode I share my personal S.O.L. Story on the process of making a decision, and the importance of...

Where do you run to when you’re scared, vulnerable, upset, or “not feeling it?” This is where I go… Today I share a S.O.L. STORY of my day, and take you on a journey back. It was exactly what I needed. What do you need? You’ll find what you’re looking for HERE… Please...

Before I go in to record almost every podcast, this is what I say... I was asked the question this week: “If you’re not all in, does it mean you shouldn’t be doing it?” This is what I say… A lot of times “should” shows up as a future excuse. It also says, “I’m...

Here's what to do the day after you receive a FATAL ERROR message… Yep, the FATAL ERROR message was back on my WomenSippingOnLife.com podcast site again today. This is what I did about it… As I mentioned in yesterday’s message, yes, you must UPDATE. Restore. Back-up....

Before you get in the middle of an unexpected — a "SUDDENLY" — a critical moment, these 3 things are critical... Even when the "S" is hitting the fan, it's important to remember that these things will also help you restore. What are they? 1. Updates are needed. When...

Fierce and Fear may start off sounding the same…until you feel her roar. The question is, have you lost your roar? Do you feel as though you’ve lost your fierce? Your strength? Your force? Your power? Do you feel like you’ve lost your way? No worries…because today I...

Please don't die, or wait for someone else to die, before you make this ONE VITAL DECISION... Don't wait until you have an annoying alarm — or worse yet, a devastating wake up call — to begin pouring out what's inside you. Don't take your gift(s) to the grave with...

When you SHUT UP for too long…you eventually SHUT DOWN. Today I’ll show you how to SPEAK UP… There's a time to shut up, and there's a time to speak... When it comes to using your tongue, it requires a lot of wisdom. Wisdom that’s only gained from USING the tongue....

  When you SHUT UP for too long…you eventually SHUT DOWN. Today I’ll show you how to SPEAK UP… There's a time to shut up, and there's a time to speak... When it comes to using your tongue, it requires a lot of wisdom. Wisdom that’s only gained from USING the tongue....

For those moments when you feel INSECURE — like throwing in the towel, and giving in…DON'T DO IT! This is why… Insecurity will keep you from making the valuable deposits that you desire in your life. To be secure and NOT INSECURE, it’s vital to keep your security AND...

Would you like to experience a full, great, prosperous, abundant life — outside of need? This is how… A need-based belief will keep you needy. What does “need” mean to you? And what does it mean to be “need based?” What do YOU need? If you only give yourself what you...

How do I love myself? This is a question I get asked A LOT… Today you’re going to learn how to begin the process of LOVING YOU. Consciously. Compassionately. Consistently. Are you ready to get an A+ in LOVE? LOVE. Loving yourself. It seems like it would be so natural,...

STOP TRYING TO FIX YOURSELF. YOU’RE NOT BROKEN. Here's how... What’s the difference between counseling and coaching? This was the question I was asked. This is my answer... Counseling focuses on FIXING. Coaching focuses on FINDING. Counseling focuses on the PAST....

The greatest thing happened to me yesterday! Yes, it felt like it was raining money… The truth is, you can wait around for it to rain money, or you can become the rainmaker in your life… Are you ready to feel like a winner, and help others do the same? When was the...

So, you’ve discovered your Love Language…now what? In order to become the great lover of your life, you must become fluent at speaking the language of love. This takes practice. Daily practice. But the good news is, the language of love is quite practical. Why?...

Did you know there are 5 primary ways you speak the language of love? Today you'll discover yours... When you discover your Love Language, you’ll know how to speak to yourself (and others) well. Gary Chapman, best-selling author of The 5 Love Languages, reveals the...

Stop looking for love in all the wrong places. Stop waiting for someone else to make you feel sexy, smart, alive, beautiful, and passionate. Love is made. Created. Recreated. Love is made. Not found. Start making it. Listen to your life. Open your eyes. Visit your...

Once you see the value of your time, you’ll stop giving it to those less than worthy thoughts in your head… Today I show you a valuable way of looking at your time so you stop unnecessarily burning it. What's your TIME worth? Your hour? Your minute? YOUR LIFE? Besides...

Stop wasting your life…YES, IT’S A RANT YOU DON’T WANT TO MISS... I’m DONE watching you wasting your time! Time isn’t money, it’s your life! When the writing’s on the wall, and it’s time to go…DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME. Stop waiting for someone to come along and save you,...

A Private Investigator, cheating husbands, and several valuable lessons learned… Is it possible to trust again after your trust is betrayed? The answer is yes…and these 3 keys will help... A question I’m often asked is, “If I’ve been betrayed, how can I ever trust...

This ONE QUESTION has the power to UNLOCK your life, and give you infinite FREEDOM… What would you do if there was NO ONE to make responsible for you and your situation, but YOU? AND…YOU BELIEVED YOU HAD THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. What would YOU do?...

Today we’re going to break TRUST down, and put it back together…stronger than ever. Show up for yourself. What does that mean to you? Do you trust yourself? When you think of trust, what words come to mind? Truth. Safe. Trust…as in money. Like a trust fund. Security....

We often say that it's the thought that counts, but is it really? If you desire to make your life count, then THIS is what COUNTS... Will YOU Show UP for YOU? Intention is only the beginning. It’s NOT the thought that counts, if there is NO action. If there is no...

Imagine if your emotions were the keys that unlocked your passion and progress. Today I'll show you how to use your T.E.A.R.S. and also conquer your fears.... Today I share a powerful strategy for processing emotions that’ll unlock your passion and motion. Processing...

Today I help you identify what may be costing and causing you unnecessary frustration, and you’re not even aware of it… COST? CAUSE? This is what happened to me today. Listen, and learn from my mistake. Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To...

This podcast episode was inspired by the question…“What’s in your closet?” It got me thinking about my own personal story regarding closets, healing, and the real reason why I podcast from my closet. Listen and find out what’s in my closet, as well as yours. Please...

Today I'll show you how the "F" makes all the difference between your SH*# and SHIFT...and the 4 F-Words that'll help you redefine it all. When the “S” is HIT(ting) the fan, you can SHIFT or you can be piled up in a whole lot of crap. Perhaps it’s time for you to...

Yes, today the infamous 60-Second handstand occurred after several failed attempts, and almost 6 weeks of “trying." This is what I learned... If you've been "trying" to do something, but for some reason (or reasons) you haven't been able to do it yet, this will help...

If you’re struggling with being, and staying consistent, then the only way to BECOME IT is to BE IT. These steps will help you… Today I show you a way to identify and clarify your consistencies, so you can become consistent at being YOU, and create the desires of your...

Today's episode is a great reminder of living life on purpose, versus by accident...it's time to get YOUR life WORKING. The most unexpected moments can be our greatest teachers, so can this ONE question. Today’s episode is a valuable — short and sweet — reminder of...

Today I'll help you begin the process of uncovering and discovering YOUR BELIEFS so you can decide which ones FIT in your life, and which one's do not... I'll show you how to take control of your thoughts so you can receive what you say you desire. Today’s episode is...

Today I reveal the 4 Forms of Opinion Ownership and a new form of Entrepreneurialism... Do you think about what others are thinking about you? You're about to learn some TRUTHS that'll set you FREE...while adding incredible value to your life, and the lives of others....

Our "ideas" can work for us or against us. It's not necessarily what you're eating, but perhaps what's eating you that matters most... Have you ever fallen in love with an idea or the idea of someone, only to be disappointed? In today’s S.O.L. Story I show you what...

Try this when you feel like giving up and quitting... Today I share a S.O.L. Story that'll give you new perspective on what to do when you feel overwhelmed, scared, and want to give up. Is it surrender or giving up? Surrender or defeat? Surrender or quitting? They may...

Your dreams aren't dead. They're still there. They simply need some C.P.R. and tender, loving care. Here's what you can do... Today I give you a 3-Step Evaluation process to assess, revive, restore, resuscitate, and resurrect your dreams. If you’ve ever felt like your...

You're not IN your way, you ARE the way! Learn how to stop battling yourself, and begin working WITH yourself today... Today I teach you 3 things you can do to begin winning with — and within — yourself. If you’re battling with yourself, you’ll always end up on the...

Today I uncover the real problems behind your commitments, or lack thereof. First of all, it's not a commitment issue. It’s a decision issue. You have more choices and options than you think you do. The problem is, you think you don’t. But… You do. The other problem...

If you’re like most humans, you may have bought into the deception of perfection. Today I’ll help you identify where you are, and how to get out of the prison of perfection. Have you ever found yourself saying, “Hey, I’m not perfect. I’m only human?” OR… You’ve...

Today I ask a series of questions to help you uncover and discover a new way of looking at what you THINK you KNOW. It starts with, "What are you learning now?" The first of many questions that we must ask ourselves. No matter what you know today, there’s still more...

Today I show you a proven, effective SECRET for increasing your focus and experiencing a "Vacation Day" as often as you desire. Vacation... It's not a destination, but a decision. One that's based on a lifestyle that YOU choose. What makes a "vacation" a vacation? 1....

Today I share my recent discovery while trying to see clearly through both eyes. There’s a reason we have two eyes, and I’ll tell you why… The question is... Are you fully utilizing your double vision? Or have you gotten confused? Please grab your SACRED S.O.L....

Today’s episode will help you get out from behind the toilet bowl (or the crap) in your life. If you’ve ever had an accident or made a mistake, this is how to turn your mess into a message. My dear, sweet, little rescue Yorkie, Stela, inspired this S.O.L. Story. After...