In today’s episode I reveal the 5 Engagements of becoming a great lover. If your experience of life isn’t the love story you thought it would be, this message will help you create one that is. Your Happily Ever After awaits…

Are you a great lover of your life?

My desire is that by the time we’re done with this podcast today, you’ll be totally ready to make love with your life!

But first, you must locate yourself.

How are you experiencing your life right now?

Are you experiencing it as a lover or a lost, lonely, disengaged, victim…poor me, soul?

There are 4 Syndromes that’ll keep you from becoming the great lover of your life:

1. The Cinderella Syndrome.
2. The Disengagement Syndrome.
3. The Superwoman Syndrome.
4. The Poor Me Syndrome.

Whether you’re suffering from one or more of these syndromes, there is a SOLUTION.


Date Yourself Well and stop accepting what you do NOT desire.

Do not accept any more SYNDROMES.

Remember, your poor me story will keep you poor.

It’s possible to enter into a love story that’s greater than you can even imagine…a life of WOMANCE and ADVENTURE!

No more fantasy or fairytales. Instead, begin to create the love…life you desire.


There are 5 Engagements Of A Great Lover.


1. Meet You.
2. Know You.
3. Value You.
4. Be You.
5. Love You.

Are you willing to experience your life as a great lover of YOU, YOUR LIFE, and those you love in your life?

Trade the “Syndromes” for a love story and life of:

1. Certainty.
2. Abundance.
3. Movement.
4. Purpose.

Commit yourself. Unite with yourself. Give and receive your own unconditional love.

Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL.


1. Answer these questions:

How are you experiencing your life right now?
Are you willing to become the great lover of your life?

2. Write down one thing you can do today to meet you, know you, value you, be you, love you today.

Start with: Hi, I am_________________________________.

I’m so grateful to share this time with you. This is the day to begin to fall in love with you and fully engage in your life. Please let me know what happened for you today, and what kind of lover you’re choosing to be…

I’d LOVE to hear from you!!

Thank you for being here, and allowing me to Sip On Life with you.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re stuck, overwhelmed, or perhaps you still feel like you’re drowning in your life, please don’t hesitate to reach out. YOU ARE NOT ALONE…

Request a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Date Yourself Well — The Best-Selling 12 Engagements Of Becoming The Great Lover Of Your Life (all you’ll pay for is shipping.)

If you’ve received value from the podcast, please let me know. I’d LOVE to hear from you — please email me at:


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And learn about an incredible opportunity for a select sacred group of 25 women who are ready and willing to RISE UP AND BE THE WOMAN.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re stuck, overwhelmed, or perhaps you still feel like you’re drowning, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

I’d be more than happy to schedule a Discovery Call with you to see if Healing Life Coaching is a good fit for you. Email me at

Come over to the WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE S.O.L. MOVEMENT Closed FB Group and Join the MOVEMENT:

By the way, if you haven’t already listened/downloaded my new song (EPISODE 291), you can also listen to it here:, and cast your vote for your favorite version.

Visit for more free resources, including my CHECKLIST FOR CHANGE, Engagement Checklist + Evaluation Rating, Six Sacred S.O.L. DATE Secrets…and a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Date Yourself Well. You can also check out my Dr. Shannon Facebook Page for more daily S.O.L. TRAINING.

I look forward to seeing you again tomorrow. Please invite your best girlfriends to come and join our S.O.L. PARTY.

xo Dr. Shannon. Inspiring minds that want to grow and hearts that want to know, so you can love you, your life, and your life’s work well. ONE SIP AT A TIME.

A special thanks to the following souls for helping me launch our WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE podcast…

Intro/Outro done by UNI V. SOL 

Outro music by Jay Man: Mind Over Matter ( 

Podcast cover design and web site done by: Pablo Aguilar (

Podcast cover photo by Kate Montague of KM Captured (