Perhaps you’re experiencing ADD because you’re lacking your ATT…the ATTention to your call which is to first and foremost LOVE LOVE, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE OTHERS, LOVE YOUR LIFE. Here’s how…

Have you ever thought about fear in this way?

It’s usually not WHAT we fear, but WHY we fear what we fear.

Imagine getting to that understanding, and no longer fearing your own fear…

Is it possible? Yes, it’s possible.

Kim McMillen discovered, “When I loved myself enough I quit fearing my fear.”

The opposite of love isn’t hate, but fear. So what if you could see your fear from the perspective of love?

The 3 questions will help you do this:

Ask yourself:

What do I fear?

Why do I fear this?

What can I love about it, or within myself that will give me courage?




Yes? Is there something here for me that I can say yes to?

Then say yes to the feeling of fear, and allow it to teach you something powerful.

Start here, and watch what happens in your life…

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(This is based on the profound little book, When I Loved Myself Enough by Kim McMillen and Alison McMillen-Givnish. You can order a copy HERE.)

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