Are you showing up as a great lover?

Today we begin the journey inside the secret process of becoming a great lover…

Seriously, are you currently showing up as a great lover?

Or are you expecting everyone else to?

If you continue to expect others to do what you will not do yourself, you’ll never experience the love you desire.

Today’s S.O.L. STORY is inspired by one of my dear clients.

She is constantly fighting with her life.




And sadly, she’s not yet winning her fight.

As I watch her, I see that she’s convinced that it’s everyone else’s fault.

That she is innocent.

Yet, she is the one suffering.

A lot.

And needlessly.

So she runs.

She runs. She fights.

She runs. She fights.

She is trying desperately to be happy.

But it seems as though happiness is running from her as fast as she’s running towards it.

I see that her answer is right in front of her.

It’s the one that she’s running from that she desperately needs to meet.

Not to beat…

But to meet and greet.

Hello, I am…

Introduce yourself to you…

Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To Engage yourself.)


Introduce yourself to you.

Write it as if you’re writing an online dating profile.


In fact, I want you to include a picture or two of you.

How do you see yourself?

How do you be yourself?

How are you showing up?

Who are you showing up as?

Then ask someone closest to you…how do I occur to you?

How do you see me?

Who am I showing up as?

You must be willing to show up and be the woman of your dreams.

I would love to hear what happens for you…

If you’ve been feeling like you’re stuck, overwhelmed, or perhaps you still feel like you’re drowning in your life, please don’t hesitate to reach out. YOU ARE NOT ALONE…

Request a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Date Yourself Well — The Best-Selling 12 Engagements Of Becoming The Great Lover Of Your Life (all you’ll pay for is shipping.)


I’d be more than happy to schedule a Discovery Call with you to see if Healing Life Coaching is a good fit for you. Email me at

S.O.L.| NOT SOLO. If you haven’t already joined the movement, you’re personally invited to come over to the WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE S.O.L. MOVEMENT Closed FB Group and Join the MOVEMENT:

I can’t wait to meet you there, and engage with you even more!

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Come over to the WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE S.O.L. MOVEMENT Closed FB Group and Join the MOVEMENT:

Visit for more free resources, including my CHECKLIST FOR CHANGE, Engagement Checklist + Evaluation Rating, Six Sacred S.O.L. DATE Secrets…and a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Date Yourself Well. You can also check out my Dr. Shannon Facebook Page for more daily S.O.L. TRAINING.

I look forward to seeing you again tomorrow. Please invite your best girlfriends to come and join our S.O.L. PARTY.

xo Dr. Shannon. Inspiring minds that want to grow and hearts that want to know, so you can love you, your life, and your life’s work well. ONE SIP AT A TIME.

A special thanks to the following souls for helping me launch our WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE podcast…

Intro/Outro done by UNI V. SOL 

Outro music by Jay Man: Mind Over Matter ( 

Podcast cover design and web site done by: Pablo Aguilar (

Podcast cover photo by Kate Montague of KM Captured (