Nothing is as it seems, but THIS is…and how you’ll be able to know the difference.

How Do “THEY” Do It? Have you ever asked yourself this or wondered, “What’s “wrong” with me? Why can’t I get it together?”

First, you’re not alone.

We’ve all thought this at one time or another. Until we see behind the curtain of the ones that seemingly have it “all figured out,” and we realize that perhaps they don’t.

Second, who are “they” anyway?

And why are you comparing yourself to “them?”

Seriously, have you ever asked yourself this?

If not, then I’m asking you right here and now.

Is it possible that the “they” you compare yourself to is actually an “illusion” of what you think is the answer? However, you’ve never actually asked “the question?”

What is that infamous question that you’re trying so desperately to “figure out?”

And WHY?

Perhaps it’s time to ask yourself a NEW QUESTION…

Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To Engage yourself.)


Where in your life have you been comparing your life and experiences to someone else’s?

Write it down. Draw a line through it, and write: I choose to DISCOVER.

Thanks for tuning in today, and every day…and allowing me to SIP ON LIFE with you.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re stuck, overwhelmed, or perhaps you still feel like you’re drowning in your life, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

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I look forward to seeing you again tomorrow. Please invite your best girlfriends to come and join our S.O.L. PARTY.

xo Dr. Shannon. Inspiring minds that want to grow and hearts that want to know, so you can love you, your life, and your life’s work well. ONE SIP AT A TIME.

A special thanks to the following souls for helping me launch our WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE podcast…

Intro/Outro done by UNI V. SOL 

Outro music by Jay Man: Mind Over Matter ( 

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Podcast cover photo by Kate Montague of KM Captured (