Today I’m going to reveal the hidden causes of the fear of being misunderstood, as well as worrying about what others think about you.

If you’ve ever felt frequently misunderstood or worried what others were going to think of you, this is for you.

The first two questions you must ask yourself are these:

1. Do you understand yourself?
2. Do YOU care about what YOU think and feel about YOU?

It’s simple.

What stands behind your fear of what others think about you, and/or your fear of being misunderstood is this:

1. You don’t fully understand yourself.
2. You don’t care about what YOU think and feel enough to tell and live in the truth.

If you don’t understand yourself and you’re not clear about who you are, what you do, and why you do it…others won’t be understand you either.

Like I said, it’s that simple.

So what can you do about it?

Start today by taking a SACRED S.O.L. STEP in the direction of what you desire.

Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To Engage yourself.)


Write down the area where you’ve been most misunderstood?

How are you not fully understanding yourself in this area?

Spend time writing it out, and giving yourself time, attention, and compassion for understanding yourself.

You can do it, my dear! You got this!

Thank you for being here, and allowing me to sip on life with you.

Are you ready to share YOU and YOUR S.O.L. STORY?

I’d LOVE to connect with you, and celebrate YOU and your S.O.L.

Come over to the WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE S.O.L. MOVEMENT Closed FB Group and Join the MOVEMENT:

Thank you for being here, and allowing me to sip on life with you.

By the way, if you haven’t already listened/downloaded my new song (EPISODE 291), you can also listen to it here:, and cast your vote for your favorite version.

Thank you for being here, and allowing me to Sip On Life with you.

Visit for more free resources, including my CHECKLIST FOR CHANGE, Engagement Checklist + Evaluation Rating, Six Sacred S.O.L. DATE Secrets…and a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Date Yourself Well. You can also check out my Dr. Shannon Facebook Page for more daily S.O.L. TRAINING.

I look forward to seeing you again tomorrow. Please invite your best girlfriends to come and join our S.O.L. PARTY.

xo Dr. Shannon. Inspiring minds that want to grow and hearts that want to know, so you can love you, your life, and your life’s work well. ONE SIP AT A TIME.

A special thanks to the following souls for helping me launch our WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE podcast…

Intro/Outro done by UNI V. SOL 

Outro music by Jay Man: Mind Over Matter ( 

Podcast cover design and web site done by: Pablo Aguilar (

Podcast cover photo by Kate Montague of KM Captured (